for the Autoplay problem, if the Autoplay tab is not available from the Properties (right-click the CD drive and select Properties), then Start\ Run , type: SERVICES.MSC
Scroll down to "Shell Hardware Detection" and make sure this service is Started and set to Automatic.
Autoplay Info
http://www.computerhope.com/issues/ch000130.htm
I don't know what "in gestione risorse" means. Do you mean in "Device Manager"? I am not familiar with Italian versions of Windows.
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